It all started when......

                   This is how Ted 's character in 'How i met your mother' starts the story of how he met his future wife. Then goes the greatest story of how one has to wait forever to meet one's wifey.....

Really?? Is she the one I waited all my life!!!???

                   Now, you might think how is this related to my little situation? and here comes the answer. Just how Marshal's wedding proposal to Lily, was the que for Ted to realize he needs to settle down too. Same way, many of my friends are getting engaged and few of them are already married. This makes me very impatient about the amount of time I need to wait for my moment.

                  You see, marriage is something I've been intrigued for almost 16 years now. Its one concept am very fascinated about. The whole idea of a man n woman sharing rest of their life together itself amazes me. Two different personalities, from different backgrounds, strangers to each other(in arranged marriage context), still figuring out what are each other's likes and dislikes, in a situation where they have to like each other blindly... uffff..... So much to go through just to have someone in our life???  hmm.. Interesting!!!!!!!

                  From the beginning, man/woman is a social being. He/She requires the company of other people all time. But, whats interesting is that within all those people who are close to us, we keep searching for that one person with whom we want to spend and share rest of our life. That one person, with whom we can be all by ourselves, who makes us feel all kind of emotions, who makes us want to be a better person, who cries with us in our sorrow, laughs with us in our joy, fight with us when we are wrong, fight for us when whole world is against, loves us more than anyone else, and in same way hates us too, cant stay with us or without us, that one person is the one we keep looking all through our young life.

             
  This bring us to the most important question of everyone's life. How to know whose the right one? and trust me, I have heard a lot of weirdest reasons on how we know who is the one. And the most cliched goes to "You'll know it when you see that person". Now this is something I never understood. Cause I did like few girls in my life, whom i thought were the one for me. As it turned out, they were actually "The One"  for someone else. Does this mean that my heart was malfunctioning or I misread signals. We may never know!!!!

                 So, I learnt my lesson the hard way, that there is never gonna be a perfect "The One" for us. Whoever we end up with, we have to make sure that we work upon the relation all our life to make it a success. At the end of it all, that someone will become "The One" for us.

Life is what happens....

Long time no see people!!!!!

      I know, am guilty of being lazy, for not even penning down few lines when lots n lots of stuff keep spinning in my head.

      Now that am super busy with work and have no time to take a pause and enjoy life, I want to release some of the nonsensical thoughts from my head to the blog. This way I can free space for more useless thoughts to fill up the racks of my brain!!!

     Have you ever heard of the saying "Life is what happens when you are busy making plans"???? If not, that's okay. Nobody knows everything (Except me :p !!!). So coming back to the above saying, its always fascinated me because, why would anyone ruin their own life. Aren't we taught how to lead our life. Why make plans when it eats up your present?? when do we actually live our life??

     I think we never try to live in present. As we let our fears and inner feelings to take over, they make us worry about some future, which we are not even sure of. You might call me cynic and I don't disagree with you at all. After all am going through the famed "Existential Crisis" period of every human life. It's funny how, from ever optimistic child that I was, have I turned into this cynic who sees life with multiple filters so as to find some negative in life.

     Probably, its how life is or that's how we make it. We start building multiple filters around us, so as to stop new experiences from killing our routine. This in turn has ripple effect, which is what everyone calls "Existential Crisis". With no new experiences reaching us and our routine start becoming a drag, we start wondering about all the fun we had previously and start planning to recreate those moments.

    By the time when we realize, that life is not about plans, but its all about living it.. we would have sailed a long way from the shore of fun and happiness. But lets not lose hope, cause hope is everything.


 So, let us try to find that eternal optimistic kid, which is hidden in all of us and destroy the filters that surrounds our life. With this new vision of life and enthusiasm, life might just become as beautiful as it once was and we can live it too!!!